I told my mom, "I want to be rich. :)"
She start nagging and object me, "Bukan boleh bawa mati dekat kubur, n blablabla.."
(so -ve la mama..)
I said back, "There are many branch in rich: -knowledge, -money, -amaljariah, -sedekah, -smile."
Suddenly, my dad ask, "Why do you want to be rich? :o"
"I just want a house with a swimming pool, where my family & I can freely swim without have to buy ridiculous expensive muslimah swimming suit. ;D"


So different, mama & abah.
Lately, I find that my mum cepat sangat nak object & nagging tak tentu pasal.
For example, my sis goreng keropok keping, bila time nak makan,
"Kenapa tak goreng 1 peket yang baru, 1 peket yang lama? Yang lama punya tak kembang elok bila goreng, lepas tu, warna dia tak berapa lawa sangat, minyak serap banyak sangat.....(and soo on..)" - Mama
"Bukannya ada label perkataan Baru and Lama dekat packaging." aku mencelah demi nak makan dengan aman,
plus, muka my sis dah berubah nak ke arah marah.

Its not like I hate my mom nagging, I just hate unnecessary nagging that will not give benefit. Thats all.
I hope my mom will listen carefully and understand them fully before bashing macam machine gun..

Sejak aku kecik lagi, I observe my dad, now I can make a hypothesis, he "rarely almost to never" defend me in-front of anyone.
For example, last week, i drive my sis car and accidentally a lady and I berlanggar bumper belakang. Kemik je la..
As usual, my tamper rise in high speed.
But, because i'm in hurry, i just give a light warning and i collect her info and give my name n my dad info.
Later, my dad ask me to follow him to meet the lady with her husband.
During interrogation, of cause the husband back up the wife and said that all that is my fault and accuse that i'm not being careful. WTF with that..

How about my dad? Of cause he control the situation, but never back me up.
So, at the end, loudly i said, 
"I'm not stupid and idiot, for almost 4 years i drive car without reverse sensor in the city of penang, and never had any accident, how could you accuse me to be reckless and tak hati-hati? kalau saya nampak dengan jelasnya kereta your wife, tak adanya saya ni gila sukahati nak langgar kereta your wife. I know that your wife pun bukannya sengaja nak langgar. Thats why we call it accident. I just want to apologize and hear you wife apologize to me."
Nasib baik semuanya end-up peacefully.
And I hope my dad back me up once in a while..

From analyzing each every situation, i feel afraid when think that if one day, they discover a piece of my not so straight secrets, i think they will blow up like a nuke-bomb.. And at that time, how could i react and what should i do?

p/s:By the way, Happy belated New Year. Tahun ni azam aku nak sihat dan nak graduate dengan CGPA 3.5+ above..